is it a bad thing to be too nice

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I wear my heart on my sleeve. I like to let people know how much I care about them. I like to tell them that I love them. I like to be vulnerable, I like to double text when I’ve got something exciting to share. As much as I like being vulnerable, I also enjoy helping people when I can, even if I have to go out of my way to assist them. So I will not let anyone’s presence change. But with time, I have set healthy boundaries as well. I believe they were needed. I am happy about it, I strongly believe that everyone should maintain healthy boundaries.

The same thing always happens to you. One day you run into a stranger and start short-talking to them. Eventually you end up spilling your heart to this person. You tell them about your love for a fruit line, the last time you cried over the death of a fictional character. You give more than you should, invest more time than you have, and give more than you ever will receive. But you ignore all their warning signs to have everyone slam into your face.

So, you wonder if there is anything wrong with you. That’s the only explanation, right?

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As a result of being disappointed repeatedly by friends, once you placed your trust in them, you did not like feeling stupid whenever a friend would disappoint you. You’re tired of having your phone ring only when someone needs you since, even if it’s the middle of the night, you’ll pick it up and go out of your way to help them. And the next morning, you’ll still greet them with a smile. You’ll still praise their sense of humor & talk about all the times you had you’ll still look for the gratin them. Your friends call you stupid because the rushing comes easily to you. That tells you bizarre lies open and you believe it why won’t you. It is true they are your friends, but innocent people aren’t stupid. You think that everyone has a good heart because you are kind to others, and you expect the same from them. Sometimes we expect too much because we will be willing to do that much for them and that sucks! don’t expect anything from anyone and you will always sleep at the right time.

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