Author: Rahul Verma

is it a bad thing to be too nice

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I wear my heart on my sleeve. I like to let people know how much I care about them. I like to tell them that I love them. I like to be vulnerable, I like to double text when I’ve got something exciting to share. As much as I like being vulnerable, I also enjoy helping people when I can, even if I have to go out of my way to assist them. So I will not let anyone’s presence change. But with time, I have set healthy boundaries as well. I believe they were needed. I am happy about it, I strongly believe that everyone should maintain healthy boundaries.

The same thing always happens to you. One day you run into a stranger and start short-talking to them. Eventually you end up spilling your heart to this person. You tell them about your love for a fruit line, the last time you cried over the death of a fictional character. You give more than you should, invest more time than you have, and give more than you ever will receive. But you ignore all their warning signs to have everyone slam into your face.

So, you wonder if there is anything wrong with you. That’s the only explanation, right?

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As a result of being disappointed repeatedly by friends, once you placed your trust in them, you did not like feeling stupid whenever a friend would disappoint you. You’re tired of having your phone ring only when someone needs you since, even if it’s the middle of the night, you’ll pick it up and go out of your way to help them. And the next morning, you’ll still greet them with a smile. You’ll still praise their sense of humor & talk about all the times you had you’ll still look for the gratin them. Your friends call you stupid because the rushing comes easily to you. That tells you bizarre lies open and you believe it why won’t you. It is true they are your friends, but innocent people aren’t stupid. You think that everyone has a good heart because you are kind to others, and you expect the same from them. Sometimes we expect too much because we will be willing to do that much for them and that sucks! don’t expect anything from anyone and you will always sleep at the right time.

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What are the 12 lessons that life teaches you?

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  1. Cooking and cleaning is a basic life skill and it isn’t a gender role.
  2. If you don’t clear your misunderstanding in time, they became the reason for distance forever and ever.
  3. If you want it, work for it, achieve it. It’s that simple.
  4. The gap between the life you could live and the life you are living is called focus.
  5. If you’re not dating to marry, then you’re dating for heartbreak. So, let that sink in and be in serious relationship.
  6. Stop comparing yourself with who started 10 years before you. Focus on your own journey.
  7. Confidence is not “I’m better than them”, confidence is “I’m great, so are they”
  8. Every time I lower my frequency to meet someone on their level I end up paying for it. That’s a lesson I really don’t need to learn anymore. Rise up to meet me.
  9. Real growth is when you start checking and correcting yourself. Instead of blaming others, you take your power back by being responsible for your life.
  10. You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.
  11. Being kind to yourself and others is the best medicine.
  12. And there is always, always, always something to be thankful for.

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Ask the value

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Ask the value of a year,

from a student who has failed.

Ask the value of one month,

from a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

Ask the value of one week,

an editor of a weekly who has lapsed it.

Ask the value of one day,

from a daily wage earner who has washed it.

Ask the value of one hour,

from the lovers who are waiting to meet.

Ask the value of one minute,

from a person who has missed the train.

Ask the value of one second,

from a runner who lost his position in the race.

“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I’m, then I can change”

-Carl Rogers

Three thing of life you have to know

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Three things to respect

Old age, Religion and law.

Three things to watch

World, Behavior and character.

Three things to prevent

Idleness, Falsehood and stink.

Three things to value

Time, Health and money.

Three things to Admire

Intellect, Beauty and Music.

Three things to avoid

Drink, Smoking and Gambling.

Three things to stick to

Promise, Love and Friendship.

Three things to never forget

Birth, Death and God.

“Accept the terrible responsibility of life with eyes wide open “

-Jordan Peterson

Thank you so much I hope you like it and please keep pray for India and the World.

Think Positive

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Say to yourself every morning.

Today is going to be great day.

I can handle more than I think I can.

Things don’t get better by worrying about them.

I can be satisfied if I try to do my best.

There is always something to a happy about.

I‘m going to make some one happy today.

It is not good to be down.

Life is great, make the most of it.

Be an OPTIMIST.

“Our culture has generally tended to solve problems without experiencing its question”

Jacob Needleman

Best DIY moonstar eggs.

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Try this weekend Moonstar eggs …we all love a DIY project, so when we use waste material as decorator it makes us happier. We are inspired by the moon and the little bright stars in the sky and here I tried to bring its small presence in a DIY. Moonstar eggs craft was incredibly easy to make and required only a few things to bring them a shine. Ready to make your Moonstar eggs too? Keep reading and have fun🤪

Paper, felt, paint, strings… these are a few of my favorite things!

Here’s what you will need…

•egg shell/egg
•scissor
•black acrylic color
•Brush
•paper
•flowers
•glue

Instructions:

~take an eggshell and paint it with black color.
~take white paper make stars and moon with the help of scissor.
~paste it on a colored eggshell as shown in the picture.
~decorate it with flowers or you can do it in your own way.

EXPERIENCE

She reminds me of the moon and stars. She held the moon the way she held her own heart as if it was the only light that could guide her through the darkest nights. Like the moon and star, she has a lovely universe in herself.
Yes! it brings an idea of this DIY to my mind.

Thankyou so much @aditithakur1310

She was the moon
and he was a star
And when they came together
They lit up the entire sky.

Do you Think she loves you?

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I’m writing this on a rainy day, sitting on my bed which is full of messy clothes. And Outside the my window, trees swaying through the air and rain droplets it looks so beautiful this evening.
This is 2021, In May, there is not so much rain here but this year it happens.

WAIT THERE’S MORE GUESS WHAT?

It means that someone close is crying a lot. Yes….. you are right I’m talking about her.
Today we fought again and in my mind various thoughts were scrolling down and finally, I started writing.


So here, do you think she loves you?


Of course, she loves you whether she is away from you or near. What do you think that she doesn’t love you, if she doesn’t love you so after fighting, after so much anger with you, after crying even after going away from you, then she doesn’t always come to you again and again. Whether she says it or not, she will miss you even after she goes away from you, of course, she loves you.

  • She cares for you.
  • She makes you smile.
  • She afraid of losing you.
  • She finds excuses to talk to you.
  • She always makes time for you.
  • She worries about you.
  • She trusts you.
  • She share every secret with you.
  • She believes in you.
  • She takes risks for you.
  • She always stands for you.
  • She do anything for you.
  • She gives you her body and soul.       
  • Of course, she loves you.

I’m writing some little lines for her….

She expects only to be treated with kindness, love, affection, and respect. She doesn’t tolerate emotional or physical abuse. She expects their partner to be loyal. She is mature by mind, kind by heart, rude from outside, caring from inside. She doesn’t only want a man to have love only for her, but a love for life, for living things. She always tries to help you. She lies to her parents for you.
If someday she makes a mistake, don’t blame her because you know she is very sensitive. If someday you fought with her then don’t call her wrong. She doesn’t deserve all these abusing things. She wants you to be patient enough to listen to her side of things.

She sacrifices her dreams, parents, career for you. So, please care about her, if you wrong or right it doesn’t matter, who is right or wrong. If she can forget your mistakes why don’t you?
If you do even small things for her she becomes very happy. She dates to marry, not to date for one or 3 years, and break up. That’s why she willing to fight for anything to keep a relationship going.


If you find such a girl, never ever let her go and love her so much.


In a relationship, there has trust, has faith, has torn, has hurt, has sweet smiles, has genuine laughter, has weird, stupid, unnecessary arguments, has patience, has communication, has jealousy, and most importantly has Love.

From mother to wife, sister to grandmother, thank you for supporting man in every aspect of life.
She is the Queen, treat her like a Queen.


“The best person in your life is the one who comes first in your mind after reading this”.

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