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is it a bad thing to be too nice

/ Rahul Verma / 3 Comments
Photo by Karolina Grabowska

I wear my heart on my sleeve. I like to let people know how much I care about them. I like to tell them that I love them. I like to be vulnerable, I like to double text when I’ve got something exciting to share. As much as I like being vulnerable, I also enjoy helping people when I can, even if I have to go out of my way to assist them. So I will not let anyone’s presence change. But with time, I have set healthy boundaries as well. I believe they were needed. I am happy about it, I strongly believe that everyone should maintain healthy boundaries.

The same thing always happens to you. One day you run into a stranger and start short-talking to them. Eventually you end up spilling your heart to this person. You tell them about your love for a fruit line, the last time you cried over the death of a fictional character. You give more than you should, invest more time than you have, and give more than you ever will receive. But you ignore all their warning signs to have everyone slam into your face.

So, you wonder if there is anything wrong with you. That’s the only explanation, right?

Photo by Julia Volk

As a result of being disappointed repeatedly by friends, once you placed your trust in them, you did not like feeling stupid whenever a friend would disappoint you. You’re tired of having your phone ring only when someone needs you since, even if it’s the middle of the night, you’ll pick it up and go out of your way to help them. And the next morning, you’ll still greet them with a smile. You’ll still praise their sense of humor & talk about all the times you had you’ll still look for the gratin them. Your friends call you stupid because the rushing comes easily to you. That tells you bizarre lies open and you believe it why won’t you. It is true they are your friends, but innocent people aren’t stupid. You think that everyone has a good heart because you are kind to others, and you expect the same from them. Sometimes we expect too much because we will be willing to do that much for them and that sucks! don’t expect anything from anyone and you will always sleep at the right time.

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What are the 12 lessons that life teaches you?

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  1. Cooking and cleaning is a basic life skill and it isn’t a gender role.
  2. If you don’t clear your misunderstanding in time, they became the reason for distance forever and ever.
  3. If you want it, work for it, achieve it. It’s that simple.
  4. The gap between the life you could live and the life you are living is called focus.
  5. If you’re not dating to marry, then you’re dating for heartbreak. So, let that sink in and be in serious relationship.
  6. Stop comparing yourself with who started 10 years before you. Focus on your own journey.
  7. Confidence is not “I’m better than them”, confidence is “I’m great, so are they”
  8. Every time I lower my frequency to meet someone on their level I end up paying for it. That’s a lesson I really don’t need to learn anymore. Rise up to meet me.
  9. Real growth is when you start checking and correcting yourself. Instead of blaming others, you take your power back by being responsible for your life.
  10. You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.
  11. Being kind to yourself and others is the best medicine.
  12. And there is always, always, always something to be thankful for.

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Ask the value

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Ask the value of a year,

from a student who has failed.

Ask the value of one month,

from a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

Ask the value of one week,

an editor of a weekly who has lapsed it.

Ask the value of one day,

from a daily wage earner who has washed it.

Ask the value of one hour,

from the lovers who are waiting to meet.

Ask the value of one minute,

from a person who has missed the train.

Ask the value of one second,

from a runner who lost his position in the race.

“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I’m, then I can change”

-Carl Rogers

Think Positive

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Say to yourself every morning.

Today is going to be great day.

I can handle more than I think I can.

Things don’t get better by worrying about them.

I can be satisfied if I try to do my best.

There is always something to a happy about.

I‘m going to make some one happy today.

It is not good to be down.

Life is great, make the most of it.

Be an OPTIMIST.

“Our culture has generally tended to solve problems without experiencing its question”

Jacob Needleman

LOVE is not ENOUGH

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Love is preserved by wisdom…
Love is destroyed by demand…
It is tested by doubts…
As well as nourished by longing…and yes the most important it is blossoming with faith and grows with gratitude…
hence love is not enough…


Yesterday while I was sitting on the rooftop of my house I was thinking why our parents fight even if they love each other the most, why love fails when both partners love each other badly…and then I started writing about the facts and reasons why they do so…..and come to a conclusion and it was a hard truth that love is not enough in a relationship like a tree it has its leaves, roots, fruits, thorns, stem…

“Love is beautiful, great, necessary but yes it is not enough”


We believe that “all we need is love, “we were more likely to ignore fundamental values such as respect, commitment, expectations, dreams, humanity towards the people we care about. After all, if love solves everything why bother with all other stuff-all of the hard stuff, but if we believe that “love is not enough”, then we understand that a healthy relationship requires more than pure emotion. We understand that there are things more important in our relationship than simply being in love. And the success of our relationship relies on these deeper and more important values…
if you are understanding or going through the same situation then… smile you really want that person in your life and understanding a healthy relationship.

Best DIY moonstar eggs.

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Try this weekend Moonstar eggs …we all love a DIY project, so when we use waste material as decorator it makes us happier. We are inspired by the moon and the little bright stars in the sky and here I tried to bring its small presence in a DIY. Moonstar eggs craft was incredibly easy to make and required only a few things to bring them a shine. Ready to make your Moonstar eggs too? Keep reading and have fun🤪

Paper, felt, paint, strings… these are a few of my favorite things!

Here’s what you will need…

•egg shell/egg
•scissor
•black acrylic color
•Brush
•paper
•flowers
•glue

Instructions:

~take an eggshell and paint it with black color.
~take white paper make stars and moon with the help of scissor.
~paste it on a colored eggshell as shown in the picture.
~decorate it with flowers or you can do it in your own way.

EXPERIENCE

She reminds me of the moon and stars. She held the moon the way she held her own heart as if it was the only light that could guide her through the darkest nights. Like the moon and star, she has a lovely universe in herself.
Yes! it brings an idea of this DIY to my mind.

Thankyou so much @aditithakur1310

She was the moon
and he was a star
And when they came together
They lit up the entire sky.

Well! Well! Did you know who I’m?

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So, you wanna know about me, it is quite difficult but still let’s see…

I’m loyal, sweet and friendly, if you make me blush I’ll be more deadly.

Telling about myself and impressing you is no longer my intention,

But if you believe in my blog, I’ll make with you a better connection.

After spending a year in Lockdown, I would like to break the ice,

And I believe when I write, I’ll make a spice.

A cute face with extra eyes, sometimes I’m mad, sometimes I’m so nice.

More drama, more frankness is what I project, And you are absolutely right this is how i act.

I hope this finds you well, before ending my intro, I hope all of you well.

#Readytostart

“We think, we listen, But very rarely do we listen with real understanding.

–Carl Rogers