Cooking and cleaning is a basic life skill and it isn’t a gender role.
If you don’t clear your misunderstanding in time, they became the reason for distance forever and ever.
If you want it, work for it, achieve it. It’s that simple.
The gap between the life you could live and the life you are living is called focus.
If you’re not dating to marry, then you’re dating for heartbreak. So, let that sink in and be in serious relationship.
Stop comparing yourself with who started 10 years before you. Focus on your own journey.
Confidence is not “I’m better than them”, confidence is “I’m great, so are they”
Every time I lower my frequency to meet someone on their level I end up paying for it. That’s a lesson I really don’t need to learn anymore. Rise up to meet me.
Real growth is when you start checking and correcting yourself. Instead of blaming others, you take your power back by being responsible for your life.
You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.
Being kind to yourself and others is the best medicine.
And there is always, always, always something to be thankful for.
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And! And! And! I have something interesting for you. So, search it on google. This is below:
Love is preserved by wisdom… Love is destroyed by demand… It is tested by doubts… As well as nourished by longing…and yes the most important it is blossoming with faith and grows with gratitude… hence love is not enough…
Yesterday while I was sitting on the rooftop of my house I was thinking why our parents fight even if they love each other the most, why love fails when both partners love each other badly…and then I started writing about the facts and reasons why they do so…..and come to a conclusion and it was a hard truth that love is not enough in a relationship like a tree it has its leaves, roots, fruits, thorns, stem…
“Love is beautiful, great, necessary but yes it is not enough”
We believe that “all we need is love, “we were more likely to ignore fundamental values such as respect, commitment, expectations, dreams, humanity towards the people we care about. After all, if love solves everything why bother with all other stuff-all of the hard stuff, but if we believe that “love is not enough”, then we understand that a healthy relationship requires more than pure emotion. We understand that there are things more important in our relationship than simply being in love. And the success of our relationship relies on these deeper and more important values… if you are understanding or going through the same situation then… smile you really want that person in your life and understanding a healthy relationship.
I’m writing this on a rainy day, sitting on my bed which is full of messy clothes. And Outside the my window, trees swaying through the air and rain droplets it looks so beautiful this evening. This is 2021, In May, there is not so much rain here but this year it happens.
WAIT THERE’S MORE GUESSWHAT?
It means that someone close is crying a lot. Yes….. you are right I’m talking about her. Today we fought again and in my mind various thoughts were scrolling down and finally, I started writing.
So here, do you think she loves you?
Of course, she loves you whether she is away from you or near. What do you think that she doesn’t love you, if she doesn’t love you so after fighting, after so much anger with you, after crying even after going away from you, then she doesn’t always come to you again and again. Whether she says it or not, she will miss you even after she goes away from you, of course, she loves you.
She cares for you.
She makes you smile.
She afraid of losing you.
She finds excuses to talk to you.
She always makes time for you.
She worries about you.
She trusts you.
She share every secret with you.
She believes in you.
She takes risks for you.
She always stands for you.
She do anything for you.
She gives you her body and soul.
Of course, she loves you.
I’m writing some little lines for her….
She expects only to be treated with kindness, love, affection, and respect. She doesn’t tolerate emotional or physical abuse. She expects their partner to be loyal. She is mature by mind, kind by heart, rude from outside, caring from inside. She doesn’t only want a man to have love only for her, but a love for life, for living things. She always tries to help you. She lies to her parents for you. If someday she makes a mistake, don’t blame her because you know she is very sensitive. If someday you fought with her then don’t call her wrong. She doesn’t deserve all these abusing things. She wants you to be patient enough to listen to her side of things.
She sacrifices her dreams, parents, career for you. So, please care about her, if you wrong or right it doesn’t matter, who is right or wrong. If she can forget your mistakes why don’t you? If you do even small things for her she becomes very happy. She dates to marry, not to date for one or 3 years, and break up. That’s why she willing to fight for anything to keep a relationship going.
If you find such a girl, never ever let her go and love her so much.
In a relationship, there has trust, has faith, has torn, has hurt, has sweet smiles, has genuine laughter, has weird, stupid, unnecessary arguments, has patience, has communication, has jealousy, and most importantly has Love.
From mother to wife, sister to grandmother, thank you for supporting man in every aspect of life. She is the Queen, treat her like a Queen.
“The best person in your life is the one who comes first in your mind after reading this”.
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