Once you stop to listen and look within, you will realize how absolutely powerful, wise and resilient you have actually become.
Miyoko Schinner
value
Ask the value

Ask the value of a year,
from a student who has failed.
Ask the value of one month,
from a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.
Ask the value of one week,
an editor of a weekly who has lapsed it.
Ask the value of one day,
from a daily wage earner who has washed it.
Ask the value of one hour,
from the lovers who are waiting to meet.
Ask the value of one minute,
from a person who has missed the train.
Ask the value of one second,
from a runner who lost his position in the race.
“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I’m, then I can change”
-Carl Rogers
Think Positive

Say to yourself every morning.
Today is going to be great day.
I can handle more than I think I can.
Things don’t get better by worrying about them.
I can be satisfied if I try to do my best.
There is always something to a happy about.
I‘m going to make some one happy today.
It is not good to be down.
Life is great, make the most of it.
Be an OPTIMIST.
“Our culture has generally tended to solve problems without experiencing its question”
Jacob Needleman
LOVE is not ENOUGH

Love is preserved by wisdom…
Love is destroyed by demand…
It is tested by doubts…
As well as nourished by longing…and yes the most important it is blossoming with faith and grows with gratitude…
hence love is not enough…

Yesterday while I was sitting on the rooftop of my house I was thinking why our parents fight even if they love each other the most, why love fails when both partners love each other badly…and then I started writing about the facts and reasons why they do so…..and come to a conclusion and it was a hard truth that love is not enough in a relationship like a tree it has its leaves, roots, fruits, thorns, stem…
“Love is beautiful, great, necessary but yes it is not enough”
We believe that “all we need is love, “we were more likely to ignore fundamental values such as respect, commitment, expectations, dreams, humanity towards the people we care about. After all, if love solves everything why bother with all other stuff-all of the hard stuff, but if we believe that “love is not enough”, then we understand that a healthy relationship requires more than pure emotion. We understand that there are things more important in our relationship than simply being in love. And the success of our relationship relies on these deeper and more important values…
if you are understanding or going through the same situation then… smile you really want that person in your life and understanding a healthy relationship.
